Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Isaac's Christmas Delivery. Finally.




Isaac


Dear Friends,

(for I consider you all friends--all of you who took part in the Christmas miracle to help Isaac's family)

There are some experiences in life so bitter-sweet, it is painful to recount them. And that is how I feel about the day I delivered Isaac's Christmas gifts. To tell you about that day means to travel back toward a heartache that time has since dulled to a degree. But I will go back there for you, because you were a part of it all along, and you deserve to be a part of it still.

Isaac was not at school the day I delivered his Christmas gifts. He had not been at school all week, because he had been at home taking care of his sick mother. I wanted to see him personally; to tell him everything that had happened to make this miracle happen. But finally I accepted the fact that I wouldn't see him myself, and instead, I wrote him a letter. My husband Fred helped me load up the mini-van--it was packed!--and we drove to Isaac's school, where his school counselors were waiting for us.
It was a packed mini-van.

Van's loaded; I'm ready to go play Santa Claus!
Isaac's new bike in his school parking lot.
I was grinning like a kid on Christmas morning as we unloaded the van and sent loads of gifts, groceries, and of course the bike into the school. The counselors would deliver it to Isaac's home that afternoon. They thanked me and asked me to express their appreciation to everyone who made this possible. Then they told me that this would mean a lot to Isaac's family. They told me that his mother's illness was quite serious and that it would, in fact, take her very soon. They told me that this would be their last Christmas together as a family.

Isaac reading his letter with his mom.
And even though I had only spent five minutes in Isaac's presence, I felt the blow as if it was happening to someone very close to me. I stood there shivering in the cold parking lot, with Fred's arm around my shoulders, and I cried for Isaac. I didn't stop crying for him for a while. I cried all the way home from his school. And now, typing this, I find I still have tears for him. I don't know what will happen to him when his mom dies. The counselors didn't know. They vaguely said that his older sisters would take care of him. But he's so young still, and it hurts to think of what he will go through--what grief, yes, but also what hardships he will face.

I wrote Isaac a letter. (I already told you that.) It was kind of long, and kind of personal. But I will tell you the gist of it--I told him that I believed we crossed paths for a purpose. I told him that no matter what happens in his life, he is never alone, because God loves him and watches over him. I told him that he could always pray for help and that God would send someone to help him, just as He sent me the day Isaac's bike broke. I told him how so many people donated money and clothes and time to let him know that he was not alone, and that all of these people--even though none of you know him personally--care about him. And I encouraged him to be good, to work hard, to wear his bike helmet, and to be sweet to his mom. At the end of the letter, I included the names of everyone who made a donation. In addition to the help given to Isaac's family, I donated the leftover cash ($600) to the Northwest Middle School family support program. I know it will go to good use.

Christmas in Isaac's home

His counselors took pictures when they delivered the gifts to his apartment, and today they finally sent the pictures to me. They told me that he teared up when he read the letter. And they told me that his family was very surprised and very, very appreciative of the wonderful Christmas surprise we provided for them.


Isaac's family

At the end of my letter to Isaac, I wished him and his family a very merry Christmas. But more than that, I told him, I wished him a bright and hopeful future. That is still, and always will be, my wish for Isaac.







15 comments:

  1. What a beautiful, beautiful thing you've done. I hope this boy will grow up with a softened heart and a readiness to work hard for himself and for others. I pray for peace for their family.

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  2. Thanks for posting. This is a sweet memory for me too. Thanks for letting our family be a part of this Christmas miracle.

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  3. You are just incredible! What a moving, inspiring thing you and the others did for Isaac & his family! I wish I'd been able to play a part in it all...but it inspires me to pursue my own avenues for acts of love and kindness.

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  4. YOU ARE AMAZING! So grateful to call you my friend! It is an amazing thing you did for Isaac, and I hope his life will be forever changed by your gifts, and especially your letter.

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  5. I think about this sweet Isaac a lot. His story really touched a lot of hearts, including mine. Thanks so much for posting this.

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  6. Thank you so much for sharing this. What a touching story! I will keep Isaac's family in my prayers!

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  7. I've been wondering and worrying about him. Thanks for doing this!

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  8. Thank you for sharing this! It meant a lot to me to read this today

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  9. What a wonderful experience! Thanks so much for sharing it with us.

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  10. You know who else teared up? :) This is so wonderful. Isaac's family is in my prayers.

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  11. That is so incredible thank you for sharing.

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  12. The tears are flowing here to.:) Thank you for giving me the opportunity to help Isaac. My thoughts and prayers will be with him and his family.

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  13. It amazes me that a child I have never seen and barley know anything about has touched my heart so completely. Thank you for sharing even tho it was difficult. I have thought about you often over the last couple of days wishing I could help watch your girls so you could write your book. My last of six daughters is all I have at home now and I miss the noise sometimes and then they all come home from school and I wonder what I was thinking! I will just have to pray you will find someone who works well with you and what you need. I commend you for writing and having children I wish you knew how much joy your book has brought to me and my friends as we giggle over it, well that and Downton Abby! Sooooo good luck and thank you:}

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